Today:
Ephesians 4-6Growing up is hard to do...
Sounds like a song doesn't it? I think the song is actually "Breaking up is hard to do," but whatever. :) Both statements are true.
In this passage, Paul...and God, actually...are really encouraging Christians to grow up. I can almost picture the apostle Paul writing this as a Dr. Phil-like character, telling it "like it is" throughout this passage (though perhaps with more hair, no accent and a bit more edge).
Actually, he encourages the readers to "tell the whole truth" here, too:
God wants us to grow up,
to know the whole truth and tell it in love—
like Christ in everything.
We take our lead from Christ,
who is the source of everything we do.
He keeps us in step with each other.
His very breath and blood flow through us,
nourishing us so that we will grow up healthy in God,
robust in love.
All right--sounds good. But...how? The rest of the passage outlines a lot of things. I'll include some of the verses and my own short version (in bold) of eight ways to grow up, too (trust me, I'm still working on them, too!):
1. Don't follow a crowd who doesn't follow Christ. They don't know where they're going.
And so I insist—and God backs me up on this—
that there be no going along with the crowd,
the empty-headed, mindless crowd.
They've refused for so long to deal with God
that they've lost touch not only with God
but with reality itself.
They can't think straight anymore.
Feeling no pain, they let themselves go
in sexual obsession,
addicted to every sort of perversion.
But that's no life for you.
2. Learn Christ and His ways. He's truth itself and can transform your life, so that it feels brand new.You learned Christ!
My assumption is that you have paid careful attention to him,
been well instructed in the truth precisely as we have it in Jesus.
Since, then, we do not have the excuse of ignorance,
everything—and I do mean everything—
connected with that old way of life has to go.
It's rotten through and through.
Get rid of it!
And then take on an entirely new way of life—
a God-fashioned life,
a life renewed from the inside
and working itself into your conduct
as God accurately reproduces his character in you.
3. Tell the truth without phony pretense, just as you'd want others to tell it to you.What this adds up to, then, is this:
no more lies, no more pretense.
Tell your neighbor the truth.
In Christ's body we're all connected to each other,
after all.
When you lie to others, you end up lying to yourself.
4. It's okay to be angry...for a little while. If you let it last, it can destroy you.Go ahead and be angry.
You do well to be angry—
but don't use your anger as fuel for revenge.
And don't stay angry.
Don't go to bed angry.
Don't give the Devil that kind of foothold in your life.
5. Don't steal--work, so you can help others.
Did you use to make ends meet by stealing?
Well, no more!
Get an honest job so that you can help others who can't work.
6. Speak life and encouragement. Words matter to God and people.
Watch the way you talk.
Let nothing foul or dirty come out of your mouth.
Say only what helps, each word a gift...
Make a clean break with all cutting, backbiting, profane talk.
Be gentle with one another, sensitive.
Forgive one another as quickly and thoroughly
as God in Christ forgave you.
7. Be conscious of your conscience. "Gut instinct" could be God at work inside you (as long as it's in line with the Bible, of course!).
Don't grieve God.
Don't break his heart.
His Holy Spirit, moving and breathing in you,
is the most intimate part of your life,
making you fit for himself.
Don't take such a gift for granted.
8. Imitate God: Love.
Watch what God does,
and then you do it,
like children who learn proper behavior from their parents.
Mostly what God does is love you.
Tomorrow:
Philippians